Host
Friendships
The Center of Gravity
The friend who makes things happen socially — plans exist because they made them exist.
Lending and Hosting Costs
Genuinely doesn't count it. Generosity is identity here, not a transaction to track.
Group Moments
Always organizing, always fronting the money, always making sure everyone has a good time.
What Friends Need to Know
Ask what hosting is actually costing them, sometimes — and offer to contribute before being asked.